Do you talk to each other intentionally and frequently? Or do you just stick together every day with nothing to do? Neither, it's called playing house, not being in love. The real love is to work together to improve together, is to be able to become a better person for each other, rather than become a burden for each. I agree with Haruki Murakami's words: having a favorite person is really too important, in your intention to muddle through an ordinary life, because of the other person and want to work hard again, in so many days of exhaustion or even lifting up the head, because of the other person and feel that there is still hope in life. Of course, I will not bind you in the name of love, you can do whatever you want to do, but I hope you can do something when you can think of me, and because I refuse some warm people and things, I hope that we talk about more than just love, but trust, is faithful, is accompanied, when you can not hold on when there will be a person beside you to support you unconditionally, and I want you to know that you are not me! I want you to know that you are not my choice after weighing the pros and cons, but my firmness after thumping my heart and knowing that I can't do it.