片刻分类: Saying of the Day

I was reading the recent hot shit periodicals, and I accidentally flipped to the blog of Li Xinye, the author of "The Wife's Guide to Dating", who was 17 years old at Tsinghua Yao Ban. At the age of 34, he is worth 1 billion dollars. He couldn't escape from the PTSD trauma of his family of origin + love for a gold-digging girlfriend, and wrote a book about destroying his father and his ex. I've never understood why with his position and wealth he would do this to someone he's loved and why he wouldn't let go of. After reading the blog comments on Figure 1 I'm guessing that writing about his father was a deliberate attempt to get back at him for his treatment of his wife...The infidelity of the son and the son. Writes about exes to socially destroy possession, aka forced love. Do not agree with his approach, but his blog is really very informative. You can see that smart people often think, it is recommended to learn more about Li Xinye, Sun Yuchen, Musk, acting style, personality quirks, thinking and understanding are very unique, I decided to continue to keep an eye on.commencementput away

What's the point of having supreme honor if a family doesn't continue on. It's just history in the air, dusty books. I understand one of the fundamental reasons why people, poor or rich, are crazy about having children. Maybe they're not that accomplished, just a lonely grave in the wilderness with no one to worship them.

In the era of self-interest, there is a popular term called "upward socialization", in which interactions between people are called "value exchange", a term I am not used to. I think it is more appropriate to call it "power exchange".

Away from the family of origin is real and objective, cognitive, thinking solidification, can not give you help, only pain. This is the reason why it is necessary for young couples to form a new family. With the new knowledge, values, and perceptions of the young couple, we can mold and cultivate the next generation, and pass it on to the next generation.

For $300,000-500,000, you can buy human accessories, for $1.3 million, you can wipe out a person in the city without responsibility, and for $3 million, you can insure your little mistakes. I hate objectification and monetization of all things. But there's no denying that money can add glamor, to mediocrity.

Don't let anyone see yourundercard, predicting your future, which is the beginning of de-phishing. The secret to success begins withbelieve for oneself, and then make others believe it. FromPlaying the Successful ManThe start of the program in thegroovetime to do what is considered important, e.g., appointments, interviews, exams.

You want to earn compound interest with a huge cost of time + skill + experience + savings behind it. There's no room for rollover with linear growth with too low a principal.

I've been letting work get to me lately and came to the realization that "Disconnecting is the best way to curb elevated cortisol, and by that I mean screening vendors and partners."

The first rule: subjectivity, in a relationship to maintain their own subjectivity (do not go to study whether the other party really love you. It doesn't matter.), more attention to the other party's character character, do not seek to change the other party. The second rule: screening, there are 8 billion people in the world, more need to be screened. Third rule: Sincerity, keep yourself real and sincere. Lies and personas cannot last a lifetime. Fourth rule: avoid disaster, try to avoid bad family of origin (in the desert)...Even the best looking rose is highly toxic), temperament and character flaws, as well as bad habits of pornography, gambling and tattoos. The fifth rule: decision-making, the cost of silence does not participate in major decisions (do not pay a lot because of the food chicken ribs.) The sixth rule: do not force, do not force to stay. The seventh rule: the spirit of contract, marriage, no matter how poor or rich are willing to accompany you for life. The other half has the spirit of contract is more important than all the above six rules. Regarding love, in psychology I have always believed that there are shortcuts and triggers that can be utilized to capture the heart of any person. Over the centuries, I think there has been a whole system where each person is like a broken stone, not quite the same but can be put together.commencementput away