BDSM Tendency Checklist

Using ropes for artistic or functional restraint.

Using metal or leather restraints to bind hands and feet.

More complete wrapping and restriction of the body.

Restricting speech or depriving sight.

Using large equipment for immobilization and restriction.

Suspending the body with ropes or other tools.

Using a partner's body as furniture.

Holding a pose for an extended period, like a doll or model.

Hitting the buttocks or other areas with hands or implements.

Using whips or similar tools to create impact.

Rhythmic and controlled striking with a cane.

Light or symbolic slapping of the face with consent.

Grabbing and pulling hair for control or sensation during play.

Walking or standing on the body.

Dripping wax from low-temperature candles onto the skin.

Using clamps on sensitive areas like nipples, genitals, etc.

Using dedicated devices for safe electrical stimulation play.

Temporary body piercing or surface sewing with needles.

Using ice cubes or flame (requires extreme expertise) to stimulate the skin.

Role-playing as someone older or younger than one's actual age.

Role-playing as an animal, including wearing collars, being walked, caged, etc.

Wearing clothing typically associated with a different gender.

Role-playing as doctors, nurses, patients, etc., for examinations or treatments.

Simulating non-consensual scenarios like kidnapping or interrogation with full consent.

Using words to make a partner feel shame (with consent).

Engaging in activities where others might see, or watching others.

Wearing sex toys under clothing in public.

Sharing private photos or information online (to specific people or publicly).

Controlling a partner's orgasm timing and method (giving, denying, or forcing).

Using a chastity device to lock a partner's genitals.

Play involving psychological strategies and control.

Using hypnotic techniques to enter a deeper state of submission or role-play.

Using fear to create excitement in a safe context.

Having a special sexual interest in feet.

A preference for clothing or items made of specific materials.

A preference for uniforms of specific professions.

Using dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, etc.

Using tools for vaginal or anal stretching.

Includes long-term piercings (e.g., nipple/genital rings), shaving, etc.

Using the body as an ashtray, a form of humiliation.

Using blindfolds, earplugs, etc., to deprive some senses.

Restricting breath with extreme care and expertise.

Interacting with plants (like vines) or insects.

Activities with more than two partners.

Activities involving saliva, such as spitting.

Activities involving urine, such as drinking or showering.

Activities involving semen, such as swallowing or applying to the body.

Licking the anal area.

Administering an enema as part of play or ritual.

Activities involving vomit, extremely niche and requires high caution.

Activities involving feces, requiring extreme trust and safety measures.