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Don’t worry too much about whether others’ feelings toward you are genuine or insincere. As long as you like her and approve of her, there’s no need to obsess over whether she’s after your money, your attention, or something else. As long as your value is high enough—even high enough to make someone “put on a show” for a lifetime—what does it matter? What you really need to care about has never been her motives, but your own choices. This coincides with some of the strategic ideas in Mao Zedong’s *On Protracted War*: you fight your way, and I’ll fight mine. Don’t let the other side dictate the pace.......and don’t waste your energy on guesswork, testing the waters, and doubt. Your goal isn’t to figure out just how sincere the other person is, but to maintain your agency throughout this asymmetrical game—where your opponent holds the advantage—and ultimately secure your own victory.commencementput away

People of the same class have highly similar lifestyles, similar choices and similar dilemmas. The rewards always belong to those who really solve problems. If you, like your friends, consume your time on swiping short videos, playing games, and even staring at your phone when you walk, the probability is that your life trajectory will be the same, because there is essentially no difference between what you do every day. To me now, learning to change from the brave, the determined, the wise. 2025/01/07