BDSM Tendency Checklist

A tool for exploration, discovery, and communication

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This test has been upgraded! You can now make selections for both Doer (towards others) and Receiver (from others) roles to gain a more precise self-understanding.

The core of BDSM is Safe, Sane, and Consensual (SSC/RACK). Please always prioritize safety and communication. Happy exploring!

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Dominance

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Submission

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Switch

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Service

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Protocols/Rules

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Collaring

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Tasks/Orders

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Physical Punishment

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Tattooing/Marking

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Poly D/s

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Rope Bondage

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Cuffs/Shackles

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Straitjackets/Bondage Bags

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Gags/Hoods

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Stocks/Bondage Beds

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Suspension

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Human Furniture

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Mannequinization

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Spanking/Paddling

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Flogging/Whipping

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Caning

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Face Slapping

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Hair Pulling

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Trampling

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Wax Play

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Clamps

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E-stim

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Piercing/Play Sewing

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Fire/Ice Play

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Age Play

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Pet Play

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Cross-dressing

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Medical Play

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CNC (Consensual Non-Consent)

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Verbal Humiliation

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Exhibitionism/Voyeurism

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Public Wearables

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Online Exposure

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Orgasm Control

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Chastity

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Mind Games

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Hypnosis

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Fear Play

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Foot Fetish

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Leather/Latex/Rubber

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Uniforms

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Sex Toys

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Stretching Play

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Body Modification

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Human Ashtray

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Sensory Deprivation

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Breath Play

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Plant/Insect Play

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Group Play

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Saliva

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Urine Play / "Watersports"

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Semen Play

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Anilingus

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Enema

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Emetophilia

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Messy Play / Scat

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