I found out thatPeople with face control tend to share a common flawThe
When someone is spiritually attuned to you - good conversation, similar interests, similar outlooks, even a little flirtation now and then - everything seems so good.
However, once you meet, if the reality of the face value does not match the fantasy of the heart, the feeling of "head down" will come in an instant.
Didn't seem to like it as much at that moment.
Yes.Human emotions are, at times, as simple as they are brutal.
It says in the books I've read - it'sSelection of genesThe

I've experienced moments like that.
In my fantasy, everything was perfect - her look, her temperament, her smile, just what I had set up in my heart as my "ideal partner".
But when reality rips away the film of fantasy, I'll fall into a paradoxical guilt.
I worry that my detachment will hurt the other person and make her feel inferior and not good enough.
At that moment, I even felt thatLike a bad guy himself.

However, face value is not the only criterion for us to choose a spouse.
God has given us different faces, like a unique identity.
What really draws us in is often theHeart to HeartThe
As those short videos often say - "Longing to be loved and longing to be understood."

And in the deepest part of my heart.
I long for that:Someone who can take off the pretense and be honest with each other.
Like primitive savages, hiding in caves, warming themselves around fires, the
Snuggle up with each other on a windy, snowy night and beat the cold together.
No calculations, no pretense, only sincerity and temperature.

I never thought I'd like someone like that-
Not because she's perfect, but because she makes meSaw himself.