Knowing that face-control people have a flaw, that is, a chatty person with the right interests and three views will occasionally commit a little bitchy together.
Such a situation where everything is fine, if you meet, face value reasons, and realize that it's not what you thought it would be, there will be that momentary downward movement of the head.
Not as in love, yes it's that simple. Something I read said it's a genetic choice.

I've been there, because fantasy is the best thing to look forward to. It conforms to the most appropriate setting in your own mind.
When it comes to this kind of thing, I would worry that my behavior would psychologically devastate the other person or give her a slight inferiority complex. That would make feel like a bad person.

Face value is not the only criterion for us to choose a spouse. God has given us different faces as a kind of identifying symbol, we are more focused on a mind attraction. It's a more elevated way of saying, like the short video says, ''Longing to be loved, longing to be understood."

Deep in my heart, more than anything else, I longed "for someone to take off their masks and for two people to be naked and honest with each other. Like primitive savages, hiding in a cave, cuddling around a fire to keep warm, facing the biting wind whistling by together."

I never thought of liking such a person.

After entering the SM circle, I realized that it was called White Knight.